So, not much change on the adoption front today. Except that, thanks to the Yahoo Group, I now know what's going on (of which my agency asked me not to post about). Lets just say that it is frustrating and I have no idea how long I will now be here. Maybe it will resolve tomorrow, maybe not.
We started out the day by calling the foster mother to see if she had heard from IHNFA and she hadn't so I let her know that we would be at her house at 1:00 pm. Then we headed to the airport to get my Dad. He had a red-eye flight so after some tea he headed to bed and Ali and I got the taxi. The foster mother and my son came back to the hotel and we ate lunch and then just hung around.
I have to say that hanging around with my son and the foster mother is getting a tad tiring. Sure my son gets to spend some time with us but the foster mother is always right there or at least close by. He really isn't learning to be just with us. The foster mother is fine, its just an awkward situation.
Tomorrow we are heading to the foster mother's house at nine. I will ask her to call IHNFA to see if she can get a hold of anyone. Then we will head to the mall and then back to the hotel. If there is no change in the situation here and I am not able to take my son on his own, then we will have to figure out what to do next. Things are moving forward for the other Canadian family that is here so that is good news. I can only just sit here at the moment and wait to see what tomorrow brings.
In the meantime, Ali is still enjoying the pool at every opportunity. We were just outside sitting around the pool and watching lightening in the distance. It is HOT, HOT, HOT here.
We started out the day by calling the foster mother to see if she had heard from IHNFA and she hadn't so I let her know that we would be at her house at 1:00 pm. Then we headed to the airport to get my Dad. He had a red-eye flight so after some tea he headed to bed and Ali and I got the taxi. The foster mother and my son came back to the hotel and we ate lunch and then just hung around.
I have to say that hanging around with my son and the foster mother is getting a tad tiring. Sure my son gets to spend some time with us but the foster mother is always right there or at least close by. He really isn't learning to be just with us. The foster mother is fine, its just an awkward situation.
Tomorrow we are heading to the foster mother's house at nine. I will ask her to call IHNFA to see if she can get a hold of anyone. Then we will head to the mall and then back to the hotel. If there is no change in the situation here and I am not able to take my son on his own, then we will have to figure out what to do next. Things are moving forward for the other Canadian family that is here so that is good news. I can only just sit here at the moment and wait to see what tomorrow brings.
In the meantime, Ali is still enjoying the pool at every opportunity. We were just outside sitting around the pool and watching lightening in the distance. It is HOT, HOT, HOT here.
I hope the difficulties will resolve very soon. Happy to hear you can stay moments with your son. Really hope you can be with him alone. Wish you and Ali have a nice time and hope very soon you 3 are together.
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