Well, after the rejection up my updated report in October, I waited for the Ministry of Adoption to send out some guidelines. Did we get this? No, all we got was a letter saying that the report had to include an analysis. So, the day before going on vacation I had to call my psychologist to redo the report although I didn't really know what he had to change. I was calling him and emailing my agency in Ontario. And I left believing that my agency would talk to my psychologist and get a new report sent out. So a week or so into my vacation I checked my email expecting to see the new report. Nothing. I asked my agency if they had heard anything. No, they hadn't heard. So during my third week I was trying to get my psychologist to talk to my agency to get this worked out. By the time I got home, the report was done and being scanned to the lawyer in the country. Finally, I thought this would all be over.
REJECTED. This is the message I got yesterday. NOT GOOD ENOUGH. The five page document was not enough. Apparently, my psychologist didn't write enough about my personality. I called him and his response was that he had written enough. I couldn't seem to explain what needed to be done. I looked at some examples that were sent to me and then sent an email. No response. I tried calling today. No response. He was supposed to call my agency today. Didn't happen.
So now I don't know what to do. I need this report done so that it can be accepted and yet my psychologist doesn't think he needs to change anything. I don't know what to do at this point. I mean, this adoption will be over if I don't get this report done and done right.
I am so tired of this. It has been going on for over 2 months with no end in site. Tomorrow I will have to try calling again and if there is again no response or if he tells me he can't do anymore, I am going to have to decide on whether to remove my dossier or pay another $1,000 for a whole new evaluation and testing report. Plus, this will delay the whole thing by 3 months. This is just unbelievable. I just don't know what the answer is.
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